Capturing the Stories of Aging Loved Ones: The Power of a Family Wealth Legacy Interview

by stephanieestabillo on June 5, 2023June 5, 2023

May is Senior Citizen’s Month, a time to reflect and appreciate all the things the seniors in our lives have done for us. Whether they are our parents, grandparents, or elderly friends, our seniors have given us so much over the years. But sometimes seeing your loved ones aging or seeing how you’ve aged yourself may remind you of how quickly time passes and how much you wish you could pause life.

When you think about a loved one who has passed away, you probably don’t give much thought to the material things they’ve left you. Maybe you have a piece of their clothing that you sometimes hold close to your heart or a favorite item of theirs displayed proudly on a shelf. But what you value most about that object likely isn’t its monetary worth but the memories it evokes of your loved one and the time you spent together. You wish you could still hear from them, learn from them, and share memories with them.

As your Personal Family Lawyer, I know the value of planning for what happens to your financial assets. But I also know that there is something even more valuable to pass on to your loved ones than money – your stories, lessons, insights, and values. While we might not be able to pause time, there are things we can do to preserve the precious memories and lessons of the people we love.

That’s why I offer a unique service to my clients called a Family Wealth Legacy Interview to help preserve your unique legacy for future generations. The Family Wealth Legacy process is built into all of our plans, and it’s an opportunity to share your love with the ones you care about most, and if you have aging parents or grandparents, the Family Wealth Legacy Interview is an even more important way to preserve their stories and create a cherished memory of their legacy for years to come.

What to Expect During Your Family Wealth Legacy Interview

Family Wealth Legacy Interviews are a key part of my Life & Legacy Planning process. If the idea of giving an interview sounds intimidating, don’t worry – the process is an easy conversation, and most of my clients tell me that their Family Wealth Legacy Interview was their favorite part of the estate planning process and a heart-touching experience.

During your Family Wealth Legacy Interview, we’ll ask you a series of helpful questions and prompts that we plan in advance. Or, you can talk freely about whatever you’d like to share with your loved ones. It’s your interview, so I encourage you to be your authentic self and make it your own. We’ll be there the entire time to guide you through the process.

We’ll record your interview on video, either in-person or remotely, depending on your preference. After the interview is completed, we’ll edit the footage and provide you with a digital recording that can be shared with your family members or kept with your estate planning materials as a special memento of your story and your love for your family.

We’ve built this into all of our plans because we find that while everyone says they intend to document stories and write letters to their loved one’s, very few people ever actually get around to it.

Starting the Conversation with Your Loved Ones

Talking to your aging loved ones about estate planning and the legacy that they’ll leave behind can be difficult or uncomfortable for a lot of people. We all deal with the concept of aging and dying differently. Some of us avoid the topic altogether, and others will make light of it and even joke about “kicking the bucket.” But it’s important to have a conversation about your elder’s wishes and how much it would mean to you for them to plan ahead.

If you aren’t sure how your loved one will respond to the topic, try to come from a vulnerable place, and not from a place of any sort of judgment if they joke about death. Instead, remember that they’re joking because they might be afraid.

Try saying something like, “I know this might be hard to talk about, but it’s something that’s really important to me. If something does happen to you, I want to make sure that we’re able to take care of you, and I know that you wouldn’t want to leave us with a big mess.”

You could also let your loved one know how much you value them, and how much it would mean to you for them to create a Family Wealth Interview so that you have a recording of them as they are right now before illness or incapacity are even a part of the picture.

By approaching the conversation in a vulnerable way, they’ll likely be more receptive to the idea of planning for their assets and more intentional in how they leave their legacy behind for the ones they care about.

Bringing Families Closer Together

Besides preserving a message for your loved ones, the Family Wealth Legacy Interview is a great time to reconnect with the moments and memories from your life that you might have otherwise forgotten.

In today’s hectic world, it can be hard to live in the moment, but by taking a little time to reflect on where your life has taken you, you’ll remember all that you’ve accomplished and all that you want to share with your loved ones, not just in your Family Wealth Legacy Interview, but every day.

Even after the interview is finished, you’ll likely live your life with more intention and awareness of how you want to pass on your values, insights, stories, and experiences in your day-to-day life. And if a senior member of your family is completing their Family Wealth Legacy Interview, you can feel at ease knowing that no matter what the future holds, you’ll always have a video of your loved one sharing their stories, their hopes, their jokes, and their love with you.

The Importance of Life & Legacy Planning

The Family Wealth Legacy Interview is a wonderful tool for seniors and their families, and I offer it as a complementary service to all of my estate planning clients, young and old. It’s part of my comprehensive Life & Legacy Planning process, which goes beyond creating documents and takes a holistic approach to planning for a life you love and a legacy you’re loved ones will cherish forever.

At the core of Life & Legacy Planning is the understanding that your family’s most precious wealth is not money, but the memories you make, the values you instill, and the lessons you pass down. By planning for your life and legacy, you can ensure that your family’s wealth is preserved and protected for generations to come.

I believe that Life & Legacy Planning is not a one-time event but an ongoing process because it mirrors the ongoing process of your life. By working with an attorney who knows you and has a relationship with you, you make your Life & Legacy Planning as effective as possible and have the opportunity to continue to record your values and wisdom in additional Family Wealth Legacy Interviews as life goes on.

Whether you are growing your family or well into retirement, I work with you to create a plan that evolves over time and adapts to changes in your life and family circumstances.

If you want to pass on more than money to the ones you love and leave them with an even greater gift that they will treasure for generations, give me a call. And if you have a senior loved one, contact me today to see how I can help them not only make a plan for their assets but capture the love and memories they share with you.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

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Why “Just a Will” Is Never Enough

by stephanieestabillo on May 30, 2023May 30, 2023

When you think of estate planning, a Will is usually the first thing that comes to mind. In fact, most people who contact me tell me they don’t need anything complicated for their estate- just a Will. Indeed, Wills have a reputation as the number one estate planning tool and can be seen all over TV shows and movies, from the dramatic “reading of the Will” (which rarely happens in real life) to characters plotting how best to defraud their billionaire uncle’s Will in order to inherit his lavish estate.

But although Wills are a key part of your estate plan – and a big part of the movies – relying on a Will alone won’t solve your estate planning needs – no matter what Hollywood says. Instead, using just a Will to plan your final wishes is likely to leave your loved ones with an expensive mess that won’t distribute your assets in the way you intended.

What’s more, a Will alone won’t ensure that you’re taken care of in the event of incapacity, and contrary to what you might think, relying on only a Will actually guarantees that your family will need to go to court when you die.

If you don’t want to leave your family with a mess if something happens to you, it’s important to know how a Will works and when it can be used to benefit you and your family.

What Exactly Is a Will and How Does it Work?

A Will is a written document that directs how the creator of the will wants their possessions disposed of after their death. The creator of the Will is called the testator or testatrix. In your Will you can name someone you trust to manage the distribution of your assets, called your personal representative or executor. You can also write out what you want to have happen to your property, what charitable gifts you want to make, and who will receive them.

A Will can be a complex document or a very simple document. You can even write your Will on a napkin if you really want to!

With that said, a Will isn’t a legally binding document unless it’s executed according to the laws of the state where you reside. In general, you need to sign your will in front of a witness, and sometimes a notary.

Some states have laws that allow you to create a Will that isn’t witnessed at all so long as it is handwritten by the testator themselves. But because every state has different laws for the creation of a Will, it’s important to consult with an experienced estate planning attorney (like me) to create your Will rather than trying to write your own.

A Will Requires Probate Court

One of the biggest estate planning myths I hear from clients is the belief that by having a Will, their loved ones won’t need to go to court after they die.

This is sadly the opposite of the truth.

If you use only a Will as your main method of estate planning, you are actually guaranteeing that your loved ones will go to court after you die because a Will is required by law to go through the court system called probate before any of your assets can be distributed. In fact, a will is only effective within the probate court.

Once your Will is admitted to the court after your death, your personal representative or executor will be given official authority to move your assets under the court’s supervision. This ensures your property is distributed according to your wishes and that the court can intervene if there are any disputes over who gets what.

While court oversight can be helpful if there is any confusion or disagreement about your estate, the probate process is long and expensive. For very small estates the process may take about 6 months, but for most estates, the process can take 12 – 18 months or sometimes even more.

Due to the length and complexity of the process, going through probate can easily cost your family tens of thousands of dollars. Some states even require that probate cost a certain percentage of your estate’s value.

In addition, because probate is a public court proceeding, your Will becomes part of the public record upon your death, allowing everyone to see the contents of your estate, who your beneficiaries are, and what they’ll receive. Unfortunately, it’s not uncommon for scammers to use this information to try to take advantage of young or vulnerable beneficiaries who just inherited money from you.

A Will Does Not Apply to All of Your Assets or All of Your Needs

Although movies make it seem like you can and should leave all your property to your loved ones through your Will, a Will actually only covers certain items of your property, including any property owned solely in your name and any property that doesn’t have a beneficiary designation.

A Will does not cover property co-owned by you with others listed as joint tenants or owned as marital property, meaning you can only give away your share of any property you own with others, not the entire property.

Any assets that have a beneficiary designation, like retirement accounts or life insurance, are not controlled by your Will at all but will instead be paid out to the person listed as your beneficiary on each account. Because of this, it’s especially important to make sure your account beneficiaries are up to date.

In addition, a Will has no power until you die, so you can’t use it to give someone you trust the power to make decisions for you if you’re incapacitated due to illness or injury. Even if you named someone in your Will to manage your estate or watch over your children, that person will have no authority to do so while you’re alive.

Don’t Just Get a Will, Get an Estate Plan

With all the issues that using a Will for estate planning can create, you might be wondering why a Will is even used at all. The thing is, a Will isn’t the one-and-done solution that most people are led to believe by TV shows and even some lawyers.

Instead, a Will should be used as a piece of your overall estate plan, not as the entire plan itself. And ideally, your Will shouldn’t even need to be used at all.

How can that be? Well, an estate plan isn’t just one or two documents – it’s a range of tools and coordinated planning that makes sure everything and everyone you love is taken care of.

And by using better tools like a Trust instead of a Will as your main tool for estate planning, you can direct what happens to your property while avoiding probate court entirely and ensuring the people you trust can step in and manage your assets immediately if you become incapacitated because of an illness or injury.

In addition, any assets you put in the name of your Trust are entirely private, meaning the court and the public will never know what you own or who will inherit it after you’re gone.

When using a Trust-based estate plan, you’ll still have a Will, but your Will should only need to serve as a backup and safety net to make sure that any assets that are accidentally left out of your Trust at your death are added back into your Trust.

And, even more important than both a Will and a Trust, is an inventory of your assets so your family knows what you have, where it is, and how to find it when you become incapacitated or die. Without an inventory of your assets, your family will be literally lost when something happens to you. A comprehensive inventory updated throughout your lifetime is a critical, and often overlooked, piece of an estate plan that is not “just a Will”.

If you’re ready to see how having an estate plan for your family is different than having “just a Will,” schedule your Life and Legacy Planning Session today. During the session, we’ll review an inventory of everything you have and everyone you love, and together look at what would happen to your possessions and loved ones when something does happen. Then, I’ll help you develop a plan to make sure your loved ones are taken care of when you can’t be there and that your plan works for you, and for them, exactly as you want it – at your budget and within your desires.

Most importantly, I don’t just create documents – I guide you and your family through every step of the process, now and at the time of your passing. I even help all of my clients pass on something more valuable than their money – their values, stories, and wisdom – through a Family Legacy Interview.

To get clear on what you really do need for yourself and the people you love, click this link so you can get on the road to your Life and Legacy Planning Session today.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

Create a Stronger Blended Family Through Estate Planning

by stephanieestabillo on May 22, 2023May 22, 2023

Blended families were once considered “non-traditional” families, but today, blended families are becoming just as common as non-blended families. Currently, 52% of married couples (or unmarried couples who live together) have a step-kin relationship of some kind, and 4 in 10 new marriages involve remarriage.

If you’re part of a blended family, you’ve probably recognized the extra layer of complexity that comes with planning for your family’s needs and accommodating the many relationships that exist between step-parents, step-kids, and step-siblings. Topics that might be straightforward for a “traditional” family – such as where to spend the holidays or who gets the old family car – are more complex.

Feelings tend to be more sensitive, as the person in a “step” role may feel self-conscious about their place as the “outsider” of the family, whereas on the other hand, one parent’s children may feel put out by the addition of a new step-parent, step-sibling, or half-sibling when their mother or father remarries.

In a blended family, you work hard to navigate these complexities to keep the family unified and happy. But what you might not know is that our laws for what happens if you become incapacitated or die are still very much based on the traditional family model, which means that your blended family will likely end up in court and conflict without planning for them in advance.

What Estate Law Says About Blended Families

Every state has different provisions for what happens when you become incapacitated or die, and the laws of the state where you become incapacitated or die may or may not match your wishes. What’s more, even though you may see your step-family members the same way as your blood relatives, the law does not.

For example, in Colorado, if you are survived by a spouse, your surviving spouse would only receive a part of your estate if you have living children (or parents!), and your living children or parents would receive the rest. And the amount your spouse receives is variable based on the number and ages of your children.

In contrast, in California, all community property assets would go to your surviving spouse, and separate property assets would be distributed partially to a surviving spouse and partially to children, if living, in amounts depending on the number of surviving children.

In Texas, it can get very complex, depending on whether your assets are separate or community, and whether you have children from the marriage, no children from the marriage or living parents or siblings.

As you can see, what’s true for what happens when you die may not result in the outcome you want for your loved ones, especially in a blended family situation. That’s why it’s so important to create an estate plan for your blended family well in advance, and I encourage you to discuss your plan with the members of your family to avoid hurt feelings, confusion, or pain in the future.

Avoid Conflict in Your Blended Family Through Open Communication

Estate planning is often seen as a highly private affair, but it doesn’t have to be, and oftentimes, shouldn’t be. In the case of a blended family, having open conversations with your loved ones about your estate plan and your goals for the family can save them from hurt feelings and even court battles in the future.

Like all families, how you plan for your blended family will depend entirely on your family dynamics, your family members’ situations, and your own personal values for how an inheritance should (or shouldn’t) be received and what kind of legacy you want to leave behind.

Maybe you have step-kids and biological kids but want all of your children to inherit an equal share from you and your spouse. Maybe there’s a large age gap between your step-kids and biological child, so you want to make sure that your youngest has the financial support they’ll need if something happens to you whereas the older children are able to support themselves.

Maybe you have a step-parent or step-sibling that you would want to gift a special item of yours like a watch or necklace. Well, for better or worse, a person you have a step-relationship with has no right to inherit from you under the law, unless you put your plan in writing.

You don’t need to give away every detail of your Will or Trust, or tell everyone who you named to make decisions for you if you’re incapacitated. Instead, start by having an open conversation about the general goal of your estate plan, such as wanting everyone to have an equal share, or that you want to provide more for your biological children because your step-children will already receive a full inheritance from their other parent.

By taking the mystery out of your estate plan goals, your stepchildren will feel included in the discussion and feel like they are knowledgeable about your plan rather than feeling hoodwinked or hurt if they find out later that your plan doesn’t align with the expectations they created for it in their minds.

Most importantly, let the people in your life know you value and love them, and that no matter how they’re related to you, you care about them and want them to inherit not just material things from you, but also your values, stories, and legacy.

Create More Than a Plan, Create a Family Legacy

To make sure your wishes for your blended family are followed in the event of your death or incapacity, it’s essential to have a well-crafted estate plan created by an attorney experienced in serving blended families. As your Personal Family Lawyer®, I know all too well the importance of planning for blended families and can help you navigate your options and desires for your family’s plan.

But what really sets me apart from other estate planning lawyers is that I know that your material possessions are only a small part of a successful estate plan. What will really matter to your family members, no matter how they became your family, is your legacy.

Instead of leaving your family a mess to be battled over in court, leave your family an example of financial wellness, of a plan filled with personal values and family history.

To do this, I include what I like to call a Life and Legacy Planning Interview with all of my estate plans. During this interview, I give you the opportunity to leave your most important assets – your values, stories, and heart – to your family in a meaningful way that they’ll cherish for years after you’re gone.

And for a blended family, the Life and Legacy Planning Interview can be even more valuable, because it gives you the opportunity to really speak to your loved ones about the plan you created for them and how much you value the place they hold in your heart.

If you want to protect your blended family from a court battle and emotional conflict, give me a call today to schedule a Life and Legacy Planning Session™. During the Session, I take the time to really get to know you and your family’s unique situation and educate you about what exactly will happen to your family under the law if something happened to you right now, so you can make confident decisions about what’s right for your family. Even more, I welcome you to invite the members of your blended family to be a part of the conversation.

Click this link to schedule your session today.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

4 Ways to Use AI to Make Life Easier for You and Your Family

by stephanieestabillo on May 15, 2023May 15, 2023

Whether you’re turning on the news or scrolling through Instagram, it’s hard not to hear about AI technology, so this week I wanted to take some time to cover what the buzz is about and how you can use this technology to make your own life easier.

AI (artificial intelligence) language models like ChatGPT and Jasper in particular are enjoying the spotlight this year. Essentially, these are online software programs that have the ability to interpret natural language and provide human-like responses. In a nutshell, that means you can type in questions or commands as if you were writing a message to a real person, and the software will produce an equally human-like response.

What has the world buzzing over these programs is their ability to understand and interpret the text you enter into them in the same way a real person would, including an ability to modify its response based on your follow-up questions or commands.

If you think AI technology seems a bit too “sci-fi” for daily use, I’m happy to share that there are a number of ways you can use an AI language model to make your family’s life easier right now, from saving you time, helping you communicate, and even helping you plan that much-needed vacation.

Here are three everyday applications for AI that you’ll want to start using today.

1. Get Help Writing a Tricky Email

I think it’s safe to say that we all have times in our lives when we have to deliver an uncomfortable message via email, text, or phone. Maybe you’re resigning from a job, critiquing someone’s work, or delivering bad news. Whatever the situation might be, it can be stressful to try and deliver a message in a way that clearly delivers your message with the right tone for that situation.

Instead of staring blankly at your email or anxiously picking up the phone, try drafting out your message in an AI language model like ChatGPT or Jasper first.

For example, I typed the following into ChatGPT to get a prompt for approaching an employee about a performance issue:

“Imagine you need to give negative feedback to an employee. This employee is friendly and hard-working but makes many spelling mistakes in the company’s meeting minutes. You want the employee to know that you value having them on your team, but that their accuracy needs to be improved. Write an email that I could send to this employee.”

ChatGPT provided the following sample email that I can use:

“Dear [Employee Name],

I hope this email finds you well. I wanted to take a moment to provide you with some feedback regarding the meeting minutes you have been responsible for drafting. First and foremost, I want to express how much we appreciate your hard work and dedication to the team. You are a valued member of our team, and we are lucky to have you.

However, I have noticed that there have been a number of spelling mistakes in the meeting minutes recently. While I understand that mistakes can happen, accuracy is critical when it comes to recording important decisions and actions taken in meetings. I wanted to bring this to your attention so that we can work together to improve the accuracy of the meeting minutes.

I would like to suggest that you take some extra time to review your work before submitting it to ensure that it is error-free. You might also consider using spell-check or grammar-check tools to assist you in catching any mistakes.

Please know that we have confidence in your ability to improve in this area, and we are committed to supporting you in any way we can. Please feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions or concerns.

Thank you again for your hard work and dedication to our team.”

Not only did the software draft a natural-sounding email, but it suggested ways the employee could remedy the situation. What’s more, you can ask the AI to further modify and refine its previous responses. For instance, you could ask it to rewrite the email with a more empathetic or casual tone, or to shorten the length of the message.

Gone are the wasted hours trying to craft the perfect email for a challenging situation!

Even if you need to communicate with someone over the phone, using an AI language model can help get the conversation off on the right foot by providing you with an outline for how to start the conversation or outlining the points you want to cover.

2. Find the Best Flight Prices Faster

If you’ve ever planned a family vacation, you know how time-consuming searching for flights can be. What seems like an easy enough task on the surface can easily become a days-long marathon of comparing airlines, prices, layovers, seasons, and the difference in travel time if you fly from one city versus another.

Now, thanks to an integration with KAYAK, you can ask ChatGPT questions about your travel plans and ChatGPT will sort through your travel options for you.

For example, you could ask, “What’s the cheapest flight from Fargo to Orlando?” and the software will provide you with the best options that meet your request.

Want a direct flight? You can alter your request by adding, “Show me direct flights only” to further narrow down your options. No need to worry about manners, you can simply be direct and to-the-point with your requests.

Want to compare prices depending on what day of the week? You can ask the software, “What is the cheapest day to fly to Orlando from Fargo in June?”

The KAYAK integration is currently only available for paid ChatGPT subscribers, but plans are underway to make it available in the software’s free version. If you’re anxious to do some traveling and want to try out ChatGPTs KAYAK integration, paid subscriptions are billable based on how much you use the software and include a free five-dollar credit to get you started.

3. Create a Better Resume and Cover Letter

Whether you’re actively looking for a job or wondering how you could improve your resume to increase your chances of a promotion, having a great resume can mean the difference between getting an interview and being passed up. But it can be difficult to write a resume or cover letter that truly conveys the value of what you bring to the workplace without sounding overly self-promoting. Thankfully, using an AI language model like ChatGPT can help flesh out your resume and create a cover letter that will stand out to a company’s hiring manager.

For example, let’s imagine I’m a receptionist for a medical clinic and want to apply for a similar position at another clinic. I’ve written a resume, but I don’t feel confident that it highlights my skills in the role. In this situation, I pasted my skills from my resume into ChatGPT and entered the following instruction:

“Improve this job description for my resume:

Take patient phone calls and respond to messages
Schedule appointments based on the provider’s availability
Help team members with questions
Follow-up with patients to reschedule canceled appointments”

ChatGPT provided the following improved bullet points:

Responding to patient inquiries via phone, email, and messages with a friendly and professional demeanor, while providing accurate and helpful information.
Coordinating and scheduling appointments based on the availability of healthcare providers, while ensuring that patient needs were prioritized.
Supporting and collaborating with team members by answering questions and providing guidance when needed.
Conducting timely follow-ups with patients to reschedule canceled appointments and ensure their continued care.

The output from ChatGPT conveys my responsibilities as a receptionist in a more interesting and descriptive way, while also highlighting my skills by showing my focus on patient care and teamwork.

By using an AI language model such as this, you can either start your resume or cover letter from scratch or get tips for how to improve a resume you already have. You can also use the software to customize the same cover letter for different companies, saving countless hours in your job search.

4. Get Help with Your Kids Homework

If you have kids, you know that helping them with their homework can sometimes feel just as tough for you as it does for them. The good news is that you can use an AI language model to walk through homework problems to make them easier for your child – and you – to understand.

All you need to do is type the math problem into the software program and ask for an explanation. For example, I entered the following into ChatGPT:

“Explain how to do this math problem to a 4th grader: 1/2 X 2/3 =”

ChatGPT responded with the following:

“Certainly! We want to find out what happens when we multiply these two fractions together. To do that, we need to multiply the numerators (which are the numbers on top) and then multiply the denominators (which are the numbers on the bottom).

So 1/2 X 2/3 would look like this:

To multiply the numerators, we just multiply the numbers on top: 1 X 2 = 2

And to multiply the denominators, we just multiply the numbers on the bottom: 2 X 3 = 6

So the answer is 2/6!

But we can simplify this fraction by dividing both the numerator and the denominator by the greatest common factor, which is 2. If we divide 2/6 by 2, we get 1/3. So the final answer is 1/3!

That means if we had one whole thing that we cut into two equal pieces, and then we shaded in one of those pieces, and then we took that one piece and cut it into three equal pieces, and then we shaded in two of those pieces, we would end up with 1/3 of the whole thing.”

Pretty helpful, right? Now that was a pretty simple example, but you can even ask more complicated math questions or questions for other subjects as well.

Not only can this help you and your child better understand their homework, but can help eliminate the frustration you two may feel over the daily homework struggle.

More Than Legal Advice – Your Trusted Advisor

By using AI technology, you can save time, communicate more effectively, and plan vacations with ease. As your Personal Family Lawyer ®, I will use AI and other technology in my own practice to create more efficiencies and better service, so I can use my heart and humanity to serve you. I’m here to do the parts of lawyering that can never be replaced by a machine and be a trusted advisor for my clients and their families. I know that life can be hectic and stressful, and I’m here to provide resources that can make your life easier now and in the future.

In that vein, I love learning about new technologies and the ways they can improve our lives. But I also know that technology – no matter how good – can never replace the care and humanity that real people have to offer. To me, the best part about technology is that by saving us time, it frees us up to spend more time connecting with one another.

That’s why when it comes to your legal planning, I offer a Life and Legacy Planning Session™ where I not only discuss how the law affects you and your loved ones, but I truly get curious with you about your life, your goals, and the legacy you want to leave behind, so you can rest assured knowing that your estate plan will work perfectly for you. And by using the best technology and systems to do my work, I’m able to be more available to my clients when they need me most.

If you’re interested in learning more about how I serve my clients differently than most lawyers or have questions about estate planning, please don’t hesitate to schedule a free 15-minute discovery call with me today. I’m not just your family’s legal advisor, I’m a trusted advisor for life.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

Leaving Your Pet in Your Will Won’t Protect Them – Do This Instead

by stephanieestabillo on May 7, 2023May 7, 2023

If you’re a pet owner, you know the special bond that exists between you and your pets, and to many pet owners, our furry friends aren’t just a pet – they’re a loved and important part of our families. So if you’re thinking about how best to provide for your family after you die or if you become incapacitated, it makes sense for your beloved pet to be a part of the plan.

You want your pet to continue to have the kind of love and care you provided during your life, but estate planning for furry friends requires a little more thought than you might expect.

To understand why, it’s important to know two things:

A pet is considered property under the law
When someone receives a gift of property through a Will, that person can do whatever they want with that property, including your pet.

A Will Won’t Cut It

While you see them as part of the family, under the law, a pet is considered personal property, just like your money, furniture, and clothes. Because of this, you can’t actually leave money or possessions to your pet directly through your Will or Trust. Even if you try to leave money directly to your pet in your Will, the money will instead skip your pet and pass to the beneficiaries you named to receive the remainder of your possessions. Or, if you didn’t name anyone else, the court will give your possessions, including your pet, to your next of kin, as determined under the law.

Worst of all, the person that receives your pet and money for its care through your Will has no legal obligation to use that money for your pet’s care or to even keep your pet at all. That’s why it’s so critically important to work with an estate planning attorney who knows the proper way to plan for your pet, so that when you die or if you become incapacitated, your beloved companion won’t end up in an animal shelter or given away to anyone you wouldn’t want raising your beloved familiar.

A Will Provides No Guarantees For Their Future

Because you can’t leave money to your pet directly, your first thought might be to leave your pet and money for its care to someone you trust through your Will instead. While this is an option, it’s not guaranteed to work.

That’s because the person you name as the beneficiary of your pet in your Will has no legal obligation to use the funds you leave for your pet’s care for that purpose. Even if you leave detailed instructions for your pet’s care, there is no law holding the beneficiary to accept the responsibility of caring for your pet or stopping them from changing their mind in the future after the court probate process is finished.

You might be thinking that the person you’d leave your pet to loves them and would never think of abandoning them. But even if this person is committed to caring for your pet, it’s simply impossible to predict what circumstances might occur in the future that could make it impossible for them to provide for your pet for your pet’s full lifetime.

For example, when you die, the new caregiver might:

Live in an apartment or condo that doesn’t allow pets
Suffer from an unforeseen illness that makes it difficult to care for your pet
Have an allergy to your pet you knew nothing about
Become so busy with work or family that they just don’t have the time to make a lifelong commitment to your pet’s care

A Will Isn’t Fast Enough

The other issue a Will creates for your pet is that a Will is required by law to go through the court process known as probate before any of your property can be distributed to the people you’ve named, and of course, it only operates in the event of your death, not your incapacity.

The probate process itself can take months or even years to complete. During that time, your pet could be passed around between family members and friends, who may even argue over who should care for it. In the worst-case scenario, no one may even think to check in on your pet regularly while the court process is unfolding.

Plus, a Will only goes into effect upon your death, so if you’re incapacitated by accident or illness, it would do nothing to protect your companion. This leaves your pet in limbo and vulnerable to being rehomed to someone you would not have chosen or wanted to care for your pet. In the worst scenario, your pet could be surrendered to a shelter by the time everything gets figured out.

Provide Long-Lasting Care for Your Pet Through a Pet Trust

In order to be completely confident that your pet is properly taken care of and that the money you leave for its care is used exactly as intended, ask us to help you create a Pet Trust.

By creating a Pet Trust, you can lay out detailed, legally binding rules for how your pet’s chosen caregiver (the trustee) can use the funds you leave for your furry friend. And unlike a Will, a Pet Trust does not go through probate, so it goes into effect immediately in the event you become incapacitated or pass away, whereas a Will requires the court process called probate to take place before any decisions can officially be made about your pet.

Additionally, in a Pet Trust, you can name backup trustees who will receive your pet and any funds left for them if the first person you chose as trustee declines to take your pet or isn’t able to care for them in the future. To add even more certainty to your pet’s future, you can name multiple trustees for your pet. In this way, you’d have two people invested in the care of your pet who can see that the money you leave for its care is used wisely.

Finally, all of the care decisions and financial distributions for the care of your pet will happen in the privacy of our office, in the event of your death or incapacity. We’ll guide your decision-makers about how and why you made your decisions, and how they need to care for your pet to receive distributions. You’ll literally have a lawyer ensuring the care of your pet happens as you would want it. And, while that may seem excessive for some, we have many clients who care that much about the well-being of their pets and want to ensure their care is handled as they want.

Do Right By Your Pet

Don’t leave your beloved pet’s future up to chance. Let us help you create a Pet Trust that will provide for your furry friend’s long-term care and be there for your pet and your decision-makers when you cannot be.

At our firm, we can help you create a legally binding Pet Trust that outlines detailed rules for how your pet’s chosen caregiver can use the funds you leave for their care. Unlike a Will, a Pet Trust doesn’t go through probate, which means it goes into effect immediately if you become incapacitated or pass away. And we will be there for the people you love when you cannot.

Contact us today to schedule a consultation and ensure you’re doing right by your pet.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

3 Simple Mistakes That Can Derail Your Estate Plan

by stephanieestabillo on May 1, 2023May 1, 2023

If you’re tempted to use a DIY estate planning service or have already created a plan you aren’t 100% confident in, be sure to read how these three simple mistakes can derail your estate plan and leave your family with an expensive mess.We regularly meet with clients who ask us to review an estate plan that they created online or with an attorney who isn’t experienced with estate planning. You see, these clients usually think they found a faster and cheaper solution to estate planning, but once the plan is signed and done, they’re often left wondering whether this “cheap” plan will actually accomplish their goals, or if it will leave their family with a big mess instead. And what I see time and again when I review these estate plans are poorly designed plans with simple but devastating mistakes. What’s more, these clients wouldn’t even realize their plan had these mistakes if they hadn’t met with us! While it might seem simple enough to put together a trust online or have your tax attorney prepare your will, it can be very difficult to create an estate plan that works without the proper training and experience. What might seem like minor details to the inexperienced eye can often have major effects on your plan’s final outcome. More often than not, clients who meet with us to review a DIY plan find out that instead of saving money on their estate plan, they’ve actually cost themselves much more by buying a plan that has mistakes. And if these mistakes aren’t caught by you while you’re alive and well, your loved ones will be the ones paying the price to resolve them after you’re gone.Here are the three biggest mistakes I see when reviewing DIY and low-cost estate plans:

Leaving Assets Outright to Loved Ones

One of the simplest mistakes you can make in estate planning is distributing your assets directly to your beneficiaries upon your death. This is a bad idea for several reasons:

The assets have no protection from your beneficiaries’ creditors once they leave your estateThe money can be squandered and used however the beneficiary wantsIf the beneficiary is a minor, a court will decide who manages the assets and how they’ll be used

Instead of gifting your assets directly to your beneficiaries, distribute your assets into a trust for the beneficiaries’ benefit. When creating a trust, you can choose who will manage your assets for your beneficiaries while also sheltering those assets from your beneficiaries’ creditors or their own poor money-management skills.Setting up a trust to hold your assets is especially important if you have minor children. Minors cannot own money on their own, which means they can’t receive any assets from you directly on your death. Instead, a court will need to appoint a trustee or conservator to manage the assets you leave for your children. There’s a high chance that the person the court appoints will not be the person you would have chosen yourself. And if the court appoints a professional trustee, your assets will be reduced by expensive trust administration fees.A court-appointed trustee will distribute the assets to your children outright when they reach the age of 18, but this only puts the assets at risk. Few young adults have the maturity or knowledge to manage a large sum of money responsibly so that it can grow and support them over time. Even if your adult child is responsible or has guidance from someone you trust, those assets are still susceptible to any lawsuits, divorces, and unforeseen financial troubles your child may experience in the future. Instead of leaving assets outright to a minor or young adult, leaving your assets in a trust, established for the child’s benefit, allows you to choose the person who will manage the assets you leave for them, helps the assets grow through careful financial management, and protects the assets from your child’s lack of experience and future risk.

Not Creating a Lifetime Asset Protection Trust

Creating a trust to hold your assets can provide years of asset protection for your loved ones, but that protection only exists so long as the assets are held in the name of the trust. The second big mistake I see are trusts that direct the assets to be taken out of the trust’s protection and given to your child or beneficiary at a specific age. You might not see the problem with this scenario at first, but even if your child or beneficiary is mature enough to manage a sum of money, doing this still leaves those assets susceptible to future legal and financial risks.Instead, everyone should consider creating a Lifetime Asset Protection Trust to hold their beneficiaries’ assets indefinitely. This gives the assets lifelong protection while still providing financial support to your beneficiaries.Unfortunately, most lawyers do not understand how to use trusts to establish this kind of protection for the inheritance you are leaving behind, and some may even try to dissuade you from using a trust at all unless you have a very large estate. Even if you are leaving behind a small number of assets, protecting those assets and helping them grow can make a huge difference in the future well-being of your loved ones.

Forgetting to Update Beneficiary Designations

This final mistake is so simple yet so easily forgotten when creating a DIY plan or using an inexperienced estate planner: forgetting to update your insurance policies and retirement beneficiary designations so they match your estate plan. While your will and trust are important parts of your estate plan, it’s vital to update your insurance policies and retirement accounts to pay out to your trust instead of directly to your beneficiaries. Leaving the names of your beneficiaries on your insurance and retirement accounts instead of the name of your trust ensures the largest assets you own won’t be a part of the plan you just created. Instead, the assets will be distributed directly to the beneficiaries listed on the account, to do with however they want, even if you had other plans for protecting the funds under your trust. We’ve even seen cases where the beneficiaries named on a life insurance or retirement account are so outdated that the person named on the account isn’t even a part of the client’s life anymore!

Estate Planning That Works

In order to make sure your estate plan truly works the way you intend it to, it’s essential that all of your assets are reviewed and accounted for to make sure that any accounts you have reflect the name of your trust or other estate plan method. That’s why at Liz Smith Law we always create an inventory of your assets and follow up with you to make sure your assets are updated into the name of your trust. We can even update your assets for you, so you can rest assured that every piece of your plan works together. If you’re thinking about using a DIY estate planning service or had an estate plan created by an attorney in a different practice area, it’s crucial to check your plan for these three simple but major mistakes. Otherwise, your estate plan might end up causing more problems than it solves, leaving your family in court and conflict. That’s why we offer to review your current estate plan during a Family Wealth Planning Session™. During this session, you’ll have the opportunity to discuss your concerns, learn how your current plan will (or won’t) work for you, and if you don’t feel confident in your current estate plan, we’ll create a new comprehensive plan for you that will provide the protection and support your family needs for years to come. Don’t let a simple estate planning mistake derail your plans for your family.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

Why Everyone Needs to Keep Their Estate Plan Updated

by stephanieestabillo on April 17, 2023April 17, 2023

As the world and its laws continue to evolve, everyone needs to keep their estate plans up to date. An estate plan is a set of documents, such as a will or trust, that dictate how assets will be distributed upon death or incapacity. An individual’s current legal and financial situation should be considered to create a comprehensive estate plan tailored specifically to their needs.

Ensure Your Wishes Are Respected

The primary reason to update an estate plan is to ensure that an individual’s wishes are respected upon death. For example, suppose an individual has recently acquired valuable property or has had changes in family structure (such as marriage or children). In that case, updating the documents that outline how assets should be distributed is important. If the documents are not updated, this could lead to disputes between family members and legal complications when probate occurs. Additionally, if laws change at the state or federal level, those changes need to be incorporated into the existing estate plan to remain valid and effective.

Ensure Your Loved Ones Are Protected From Tax Implications

Another reason for updating an estate plan is for future tax planning purposes. Without proper planning and asset allocation, taxes can significantly reduce the amount that beneficiaries receive after one’s death. Additionally, some states have transfer taxes on certain assets (such as real estate), which must be factored into one’s estate planning decisions. In addition, changes in Federal tax law may affect whether other taxes, such as capital gains tax, applies at the time of death or while transferring assets during life – thus providing additional incentive for individuals to review their plans regularly with their advisors and make necessary updates when necessary.

Ensure Your Medical Decisions Are Handled With Care

Estate planning also encompasses contingency plans in case of incapacity due to illness or injury – commonly referred to as disability planning. This means creating end-of-life documents such as Advance Health Care Directives which list specific instructions about medical treatments that should be administered if certain conditions arise – such as if a person suffers from dementia or a traumatic brain injury and can no longer make decisions on their behalf. This planning can provide peace of mind knowing that an individual’s wishes will be respected even if they cannot make decisions themselves due to illness or injury.

Ensure You Leave a Legacy For Your Loved Ones

Finally, updating an estate plan allows people to express gratitude for those who have helped them over the years – whether it be through providing advice on financial matters or being there simply by offering emotional support during difficult times – by including them in a legacy interview with our firm. Specific instructions can also be included in your plan regarding how charitable donations should be handled after death – enabling individuals who wish to donate part of their wealth to leave behind a lasting legacy that furthers causes they believe in long after they pass away.

Keep Your Estate Plan Up-To-Date

In conclusion, having an up-to-date estate plan helps ensure that your wishes are respected upon incapacity or death; protects you from unnecessary taxes; helps with disability planning; and allows you the chance to express appreciation towards those who have had a positive impact on your life while still alive. Therefore, estate plans should consider current circumstances and anticipate future events to avoid any potential problems. As your Personal Family Lawyer, we hold regular reviews of your estate plan through the stages of change in your life or every three years. Contact us today with your questions about your current plan and if you need an update.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

Estate Planning Before You Travel: Why It’s Critically Important

by stephanieestabillo on April 10, 2023April 10, 2023

Vacations can be the perfect opportunity to relax, disconnect from work and responsibilities, and enjoy your spouse, partner, kids’ or friend’s company. But before you head off on your next getaway, there’s something else you should consider doing that might not sound quite as fun—creating an estate plan. While it may not sound like the most thrilling way to spend a day, here are some reasons why you need to think about your estate plans before you travel.

An estate plan ensures any medical decisions needed while away from home will be handled according to your wishes, and with as much ease as possible, no matter what the rules are where something happens. If you fall ill or become injured and can’t make medical decisions for yourself, your estate plan will ensure that decisions will be made by the person you choose, and with your indicated desires for your care at the forefront.
Without an estate plan in place, your family or friends could have a heavy lift to get you back home, locate your assets, keep your bills paid, and even ensure your children get taken care of by the right people in the right way.
Lastly, an estate plan ensures that any debts or liabilities are taken care of properly in case something happens while on vacation. This can help prevent creditors from trying to collect from surviving family members after the fact — something no one wants to deal with during such a difficult time.

Yes, Even Married Couples Need an Estate Plan

You might think that because you are married, you don’t need an estate plan. Or you might even think your Will is enough and would just handle everything. But that’s generally not the case.

Even if you are married, you still need medical powers of attorney, making it clear that you want your spouse making medical decisions for you, or even potentially adding in additional decision-makers. You still want a Living Will to give clarity on how you want medical decisions made for you.

Finally, if you have dependent children, you want to ensure you’ve made it as easy as possible for their care needs to be continued by the people you want, in the way you want. Without a plan in place, decisions around their care could be tied up for months, including access to the financial assets their caregivers would need to ensure they have what they need along the way.

The Benefits of Working With an Attorney

While you can create an estate plan without legal assistance, there are serious risks to the people you love, if your plan is not completed, not updated after it’s been done once, or not completed properly. The only real guarantee for the people you love to have as much ease as possible, is if you work with an experienced attorney specializing in estate planning, and particularly Life & Legacy Planning. As a Personal Family Lawyer® firm, we understand what needs to go into a thorough and complete estate plan — as well as the potential pitfalls or issues that could arise due to your unique personal and family dynamics — so you can rest assured knowing everything is being taken care of properly before you embark on your trip.

As a Personal Family Lawyer®, we can advise you on other important documents such as Wills, Trusts, powers of attorney (POA), health care directives (HCD), and guardianship paperwork (for minor children) so you can make informed decisions based on what you want to have happen if you become incapacitated or die . All these items should be considered when creating an effective estate plan — especially when one or both parties will be traveling outside their home country at any point.

Don’t Let a Lack of Planning Dampen Your Vacation Spirits!

Taking a few simple, yet critically important, steps now can save you and your family considerable headaches down the road if anything were ever to happen while on the road—not only do we want you to enjoy each moment spent together, but we want peace of mind knowing that whatever comes your way is handled according to your wishes!

We can help put a plan together now so that you don’t forget about this important task before packing up for your next adventure. Making sure all your affairs are in order will ensure nothing stands in the way between you and enjoying time together! Contact us today to get started.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.

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Obtaining A Power Of Attorney For Elderly Parents

by stephanieestabillo on April 3, 2023April 3, 2023

Making important decisions for aging parents can be a challenging task, but power of attorney (POA) can provide peace of mind and clarity in times of need. POA enables individuals to make crucial decisions on behalf of their parents, such as managing their finances or making medical decisions, when they are unable to do so themselves due to age or illness.

While it may be difficult to approach this topic with your parents, having these discussions early on can help ensure that you follow their wishes if their health changes over time. Starting the conversation with empathy and understanding can make all the difference.

In this article, we’ll explore how to obtain power of attorney for elderly parents and provide helpful tips on how to approach these discussions with warmth and care. After all, our ultimate goal is to ensure that your aging parents receive the best possible care and support.

What’s a POA?

According to the American Bar Association, POAs are legal documents, which vary between states, that provide a person, or several individuals, with the power to perform actions on behalf of someone else. The individual with a POA is an agent, whereas the principal refers to the person who is having their affairs managed by other individuals. Agents can only perform actions outlined within the POA document. Moreover, if someone agrees to a POA, they can still make their own decisions, providing they can still do so coherently. This means the agent cannot make exclusive decisions on behalf of the principal.

POA Types

Below is more information regarding the different POA types:

General: For this POA, the agent can manage the principal’s affairs for a specific period, and the principal may revoke this at any point. These automatically finish if the principal becomes incapacitated and are common when an individual can still see to their affairs but prefers that someone else does this for them.
Durable: These POAs continue after the principal becomes incapacitated and are more common when someone cannot manage their affairs. They can conclude in many ways, including once the principal dies or if the agent completes the conditions within the POA document.
Springing: The terms in this POA do not take effect unless the principal becomes incapacitated. For this POA, the principal remains in control of their affairs until they lose capacity.
Medical: These POAs allow agents to make the principal’s medical decisions. They last until the principal is competent and might also expire after a certain period mentioned in the document.
Limited: These limit the agent’s ability to make decisions regarding certain tasks as outlined in the POA document, such as paying bills or selling a house. Limited POAs are usually temporary and end when the principal loses capacity.

Why and When to Consider a POA For Your Aging Parents

Here are the common reasons why individuals may consider getting a POA:

Finance issues: POAs enable individuals to continue paying their parents’ bills and manage their finances when their parents struggle to fulfill these obligations.
Serious illness: Having a POA for an elderly parent can be helpful as it allows them to focus on getting better and reduces the stresses associated with managing their affairs.
Memory issues: Individuals commonly obtain a POA to manage their parents’ affairs if they develop dementia. It is helpful to note that it is necessary to obtain the POA before the parent loses their capacity.
Surgery: When an elderly parent is undergoing surgery, it might be a good idea to obtain a POA so individuals can make decisions on their parents’ behalf and manage their affairs until they have fully recovered.
Frequent travel: Some elderly parents like to travel frequently, so POAs can be useful here for ensuring their affairs remain in order while they are away.

How Do I Choose a POA For My Parents?

When considering a POA for your aging parents, there are several things to keep in mind. The most crucial factor is trust – you must choose someone you can rely on to make decisions in your parents’ best interests and follow their wishes.

While family members are often chosen for this role, it’s important to consider whether they are the best fit. If you think an objective outsider may be better suited to the task, such as a lawyer, accountant, or financial institution, this is also an option, although it may come with additional costs.

Before agreeing to be a POA for your parents, it’s essential to have a thorough discussion with them to understand their needs and preferences. Different types of POAs have different levels of responsibility, and it’s important to clarify what your parents expect from you. If your parents need help with medical decisions, for example, this will require more involvement than if they only need assistance with financial decisions.

Finally, it’s essential to understand the financial implications of becoming a POA. You will need to keep your finances separate from your parents’ and be prepared to justify any decisions you make to avoid legal issues.

Choosing a POA for your aging parents is a significant decision, and it’s essential to approach it with care and sensitivity. By having open and honest discussions and seeking objective advice, you can ensure that your parents receive the best possible care and support.

Contact Us To Learn More About Obtaining A Power Of Attorney For Your Elderly Parents

If you have elderly parents, it’s understandable that discussing power of attorney (POA) may be a sensitive topic. However, starting these discussions as early as possible can bring peace of mind and clarity in the future.

When approaching these conversations, it’s important to consider your parents’ health and well-being. Let them know that you’re there to support them and that you will only use the POA powers if it’s absolutely necessary. It’s a promise that can help reassure your parents that you have their best interests at heart.

Additionally, it may be helpful to seek the guidance of an experienced estate planning attorney. They can provide objective advice and alleviate any concerns that your parents may have. We understand that this is a difficult process, but we’re here to help. Please feel free to contact us today to learn more about how we can assist you and your family.

THIS ARTICLE IS A SERVICE OF LIZ SMITH, IN JUNEAU, ALASKA. WE DO NOT JUST DRAFT DOCUMENTS; WE ENSURE YOU MAKE INFORMED AND EMPOWERED DECISIONS ABOUT LIFE AND DEATH, FOR YOURSELF AND THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. THAT’S WHY WE OFFER A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION, DURING WHICH YOU WILL GET MORE FINANCIALLY ORGANIZED THAN YOU’VE EVER BEEN BEFORE AND MAKE ALL THE BEST CHOICES FOR THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE. YOU CAN BEGIN BY CALLING OUR OFFICE TODAY AT 907-312-5436 TO SCHEDULE A LIFE AND LEGACY PLANNING SESSION AND MENTION THIS ARTICLE TO FIND OUT HOW TO GET THIS $750 SESSION AT NO CHARGE; OR BOOK A TIME FOR OUR TEAM TO CALL YOU AT A TIME YOU CHOOSE.